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Featured Spanking! Do you indulge with your partner?

Discussion in 'Sex & Sexual Health' started by Maximil5, Apr 21, 2017.

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  1. Maximil5

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    Are there people out there that use spanking as a sexual prelude, to get the juices flowing so to speak? Or use it as discipline in a male or female led relationship?
    I very curious about the younger generations take on this as well, so if you reply, please state your age and sex m/f. As I grew up in a childhood that spanking children was a normal thing, I don't think that influenced my fetish towards spanking tho. Please be open and honest about this. I know most people here are. If your not in a relationship that this happens giving or receiving, but would like to be or at least try it, write about that as well. I can offer some great advice on how to open up or get the subject brought to light with your partner. Cheers all.
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    Lots of views but only one vote, and no response? This is a non judgmental forum. Please participate in making comments and as I asked, state your sex male and female please. And thank you.
    Max
     
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    We spank each other on the butt when we are role playing. My husband gets all excited when he spanks mine and seeing me moan make him go wild:giggle:
     
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    Maximil5Maximil5 - I know spanking during the world famous "doggy" is popular :p , but spanking as a means of an isolated sex act, I suppose it is an acquired taste. It has to be some serious roleplay to really get into the act right? I would like to try but I am sure my wife would laugh like crazy if I spanked her and then if I continued it she would probably kick me in the butt :LOL: Maybe I should watch some spanking and bdsm style porn to get ideas hehe. There's a lot of variations of sex and foreplay obviously :)
     
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    My experience with spanking is not a good one and I wonder If I would ever want to be spanked in future.
    Earlier I always used to enjoy light spanking in the bedroom during role play but soon this moved out of the bedroom. My fiance one day admitted that he loves spanking me. At first I thought it as a harmless thing and went along with the act but then he started spanking me really hard and not in a good way. It hurt me and I literally had to tell him to stop but this didn't stop him and it continued.

    Last week when we were making up after a fight, he started saying that he doesn't need my permission to spank me and it is going to hurt and If I tell him to stop he will just tell me to shut up. I was shocked. I then realized how silly I was to be fine with everything. The spanking was no longer a kinky thing now but it has become his way to hit me. I didn't sign up for this. I have moved out of the house and am staying with my mom till I get all this sorted out.
     
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    Thanks Di and Medic for your input.
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    Hi Iris, wow!
    You're right, that's not good! Spanking amoung adults must be a consentuall agreement, not what you've described. It sounds like he has taken a fantasy of a D/s life style and tried to impose it on you, which can never work or be
    a positive experience for either of you. Absolutely it's abuse of its not agreed to! You did the right thing by getting away from the situation, and now you need, if you choose, to talk this whole thing out and let him know, you have rights inside the marriage, and limitations. He's probably watched a lot of videos showing a D/s lifestyle, which is fine as long as both parties agree that punishment, without certain boundaries will be the norm. And yes the spankings can become very severe in this lifestyle. Anyway, you need to be firm in your commitment as to what you will tolerate from now on, and that he must respect your limits and you as a person. You may have a long road ahead of you, if you don't feel safe seeing around him alone, please consult a therapist that you can go to together to work this out. A sex therapist might be the reasonable choice here? As this is lust driven, and a power trip for him.
    Good luck Iris, I how you can work things out, if that's your intention. If you need anything else answered
     
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    I've posted a pic of my poor bottom after my recent birthday spanking on the fifty shades thread, if anyone is interested!
    Max
     
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    Interested :p cant say any pic though lol

    Edit: sorry, will check the other thread :)
     
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    Oh!!!! Poor you. I can never spank my partner like that:(
    We do spank each other during role play but that's totally harmless. However I do give him a lot of love-bites and he just loves them.
     
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    We both enjoy a lot of spanking and I must confess my partner has the perfect ass. There have been times when we have gone overboard and spanked each other really hard but trust me it's worth the pain. It is so arousing and satisfying....

    Seeing your pic is not a surprise to me. Guys don't feel bad for Max. They are having all the fun:sneaky:
     
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