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How to stop premature ejaculation?

Discussion in 'Sex & Sexual Health' started by Kackish, Dec 4, 2015.

  1. Kackish

    Kackish Member

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    How to avoid premature ejaculation? There are times when I can't hold back with the very first push and cum. While this happens mostly when I refrain from sex for a 2 weeks or more, I find that I lack stamina even otherwise. Can you guys thrust for more than 2-3 minutes? Any tips that will stop this problem for me?
     
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    TwoOneBee Junior Researcher

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    Just think about baseball.

    Nah, in all seriousness, if you haven't had sex in a few weeks, it's normal that you won't have your regular sexual stamina. I'm sure if you explain it to the woman and show how excited you are for her, she'd understand. After all, you're having your orgasm quickly directly because of her, so that has to be flattering to some degree.

    Something to help you last longer is obviously masturbation before the act. Knowing your triggers and how you feel as you get close will help you focus and adjust to make it last longer. If you know ahead of time that you'll be having sex, you can masturbate a bit earlier (a few hours), but only if you think this won't hinder your performance; you don't want to go from finishing in a few pumps to not being able to either get it up or not being able to finish at all because you're already withdrawn all available mojo.

    I also know that wearing a condom lowers the feeling of having sex, which in turn could result in you lasting longer. Obviously having sex with a condom on with your long term partner isn't great, but it's something to consider if you're nervous of finishing too quick.

    Finally, you know you're quick, so focus on the woman first. Foreplay, oral, touching, etc... Get her going as much as possible until the actual act. Hopefully by then she'll have gotten off once (or more) and the fact that you're done in a couple of minutes won't matter.
     
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    sunshiney Junior Researcher

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    Abstaining from sex and masturbation is probably not the way to go if you want to last longer. If anything, masturbating several hours before having sex will actually help you...once you've already expended that sexual energy it will take longer to work yourself back up to that point.

    You could also look for 'delayed' condoms and/or lube, which have a slight numbing effect that can help keep your sexual responses more manageable. As TwoOneBeeTwoOneBee mentioned, regular condoms also reduce sensitivity for lots of guys, so that might be a good place to start.
     
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    Mоst саsеs оf рrеmаturе еjасulаtiоn dо nоt hаvе а сlеаr саusе. With sеxuаl еxреriеnсе аnd аgе, mеn оftеn lеаrn tо dеlаy оrgаsm. Рrеmаturе еjасulаtiоn mаy оссur with а nеw раrtnеr. It mаy hарреn оnly in сеrtаin sеxuаl situаtiоns оr if it hаs bееn а lоng timе sinсе thе lаst еjасulаtiоn. Рsyсhоlоgiсаl fасtоrs suсh аs аnxiеty, guilt, оr dерrеssiоn саn аlsо саusе it. In sоmе саsеs, it mаy bе rеlаtеd tо а mеdiсаl саusе suсh аs hоrmоnаl рrоblеms, injury, оr а sidе еffесt оf сеrtаin mеdiсinеs.
     
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    pwarbi Junior Researcher

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    I've never really suffered from premature ejaculation myself and even when I first started having sex I was always able to last a certain amount of time.

    For me it is mostly in the mind, and while we naturally get excited when having sex and especially with a new partner for the first time, it's important to be able to switch your mind off, for want of a better expression. That way you won't get over excited and you'll be able to maintain a decent amount of time making sure your both satisfied.
     
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    When you do not have sex for a long time then it is obvious you will ejaculate really fast.
    I last for more than half an hour and that is me because I am not really as sensitive as I want down there.

    The best way I know to prevent premature ejaculation is to clear your ball sack before sex. It is common for men to masturbate first so that they last longer in bed.
     
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    nytegeek Junior Researcher

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    Well, that is a pretty crude way to phrase it. That may work in some cases but it can also impact performance in other ways as well. Consulting a doctor and or therapist if you have a consistent issue with being premature might be a better idea.
     
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    As mentioned above, you may end up pushing noodle if you try to clear out before sex. If you smoke, that affects your blood pressure negatively and will result in you ejaculating. The two most important factors in good sex are blood pressure, to maintain hardness, and cardiovascular health. Changes in blood acidity, CO2 concentration, etc. all have effects on how 'close' you are; so the more easily you can clear out CO2 the longer it will take for you to climax.
     
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    pwarbi Junior Researcher

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    I also wouldn't really recommend masturbating before sex to try and make you last longer as while it probably will help, your erection won't be as strong so your partner might not even want it to last longer if they're not getting the pleasure they need or want out of it.
     
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    Super P-force (Viagra with Dapoxetine) tablet helps in renouncing the genuine sexual life of males from two serious sexual problems i.e. erectile dysfunction as well as premature ejaculation. Thus, utilizing the presence of 2 active elements and its combos, it helps men within getting and keeping their erections up until the climax of the intercourse.
     
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    RTWodit Junior Researcher

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    thanks for that info Ali - I really dont want to re-home him and also dont want to give him a life of isolation - so I think Ill chose a pig vet and hope for the best. Ill let you know how Barney gets on
     
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