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Edging to help cure premature ejaculation

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction Forum (Viagra/Cialis)' started by BWE, Aug 8, 2013.

  1. BWE

    BWE Member

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    I started edging in my early twenties, and I find it really helpful to improve stamina and to avoid having premature ejaculations. Edging basically involves masturbating and then stopping right before you ejaculate (I call it the Point of No Return). Once the urge to ejaculate has subsided, repeat for a many times and as long as you like. You’re basically training your nervous system to learn how to gain complete control of your ejaculation.

    I've had really amazing orgasms by using this “stop and go” technique by building up for twenty minutes or more per masturbation session before ejaculating. The result is that over time, it takes me longer to climax (good news for my girlfriend) and the erections are also stronger (I think this has something to do with getting regular blood flow into the penis for longer periods of time).

    Has anybody else tried edging or the "stop and go" technique?
     
  2. brokenjunk

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    I've read about this method and have added it to my routine. Every other day I do kegels and on off days I do stop and start. I just started doing the exercises this week so I will have to wait and see if it actually helps me. Sounds promising though if it has helped you.
     
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    I have tried and failed to get better at edging. The best I can do is recited multiplication tables in my head, which sometimes buys me extra time. If I remember to slow down when I do this, it usually saves me.
     
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    I will definitely give this a try. I heard that since during masturbation we are so focused on the finishing result, we tend to get used to ejaculating fast. This is probably more prominent in those of use who masturbate more frequesntly >_>

    But during sex, the focus is on the entire experience. I am guessing that if one is having frequent sex, and has cut back on masturbation, that over time they will gain some stamina.

    Edging sounds like it is a great exercise to do, proving that ejaculating isn't a race.
     
  5. BWE

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    It's definitely true that those who masturbate and focus on attaining orgasm quickly (or have sex in hurried situations to avoid getting caught - this is more common than we think!) tend to develop the tendency to reach climax quickly and this then leads to premature ejaculation.

    In edging, it's the opposite technique; basically trying to slow down your response and control your ejaculation. This over time will lead to better stamina (perhaps staying power is a better word).
     
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    I have tried this technique before in the past. I didn't realize there was a name for it though. You will make progress but you have to put the time in as odd as that sounds. I think edging is the easiest thing a man can do to "cure" premature ejaculation.
     
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    caparica007 Junior Researcher

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    I have never tried it, but I think one good way to avoid premature ejaculation is to have a good lube, if you penis is more "comfortable" in it's action it will feel better, not so tight and can perform longer.
     
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    That's what I think the cause of my PE was for sure. Trying to hurry up and not get caught. I hope with edging I can see results over time. Its so hard to just not go for it though, ya know?
     
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    I always do the edging, and it really feels awesome to kind of suppress ejaculation. Sometimes I fail, sometimes I get victorious at not ejaculating when I really felt the urge to do so. This one technique gives me better orgasm, and great spurting velocity (haha).
     
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    Although I have tried this technique inadvertently, because it definitely is pleasurable and more intense, I didn't know that it had so many benefits. I have never had any problems like pre-ejaculation though.

    I am just curious about the source of this information. Where did you learn about it?
     
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    I used to do this naturally, not because of premature ejaculation but just to extend the pleasure while masturbating. I think it has helped with my sex life as I am pretty good at controlling and stopping myself during sex before ejaculating. Men who suffer from ED should definitely try edging, you can get your partner to help you to make it even more fun to do.
     
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    I've heard about this technique, I've also heard that it is not necessarily good for you though. After you finally "stop", you might not be able to "go" for a while.
     
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    i have never had a problem with premature ejeculation. When I was a young lad it was one of my biggest fears, if I was preparing for a date in the evening with a young lady who, shall we say, liked to play, I would masturbate before going on the date for fear of premature ejeculation.
    Over the years this fear has subconsciously developed to a point where to ejeculate during intercourse is very difficult, usually requiring extra manual and oral stimulation.
     
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    Wow, this actually sounds great! I have tried to do this in the past but your technique sounds more advanced, would definitely love to give it a try.

    I've never had problems with pre-mature ejaculations but definitely increasing stamina would be helpful.
     
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    Who said so matey? It's good for you. I have doing it for last couple of months and never experienced any problems. It's not like you won't be able to do it again. Not only it's more pleasurable, but as the poster said, it's healthy for you as well.
     
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    Yes, edging can help cure premature ejaculation. It's also called the start stop method where you masturbate and stop just before orgasm. Repeat this four times and do it for a few weeks and differences should be visible. I for one can't do this for the life of me. It's very hard not to orgasm when your are so close to it.
     
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    I have done this along with Kegels for quite a few years now. I definitely find it to be helpful. Another thing that helps me with premature ejaculation is ensuring that I masturbate quite frequently. After masturbating I can always last longer when I have sex with my partner. The combination of these three has made us have very fun sex almost all of the time.
     
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    The only problem with masturbating before sex is the decrease in libido. It may work for some, but it actually leads to lowered enthusiasm and thus slightly less satisfying sex.
     
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    I believe this is an actual scientifically based practice that does enhance endurance somewhat. I tried it when I was younger and still do when I feel performance has waned. It's not as necessary as before as I've learned other techniques to please my partner. Although, if it works for others, I add my vote to this technique.
     
  20. BWE

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    It does work and I guess you could compare it to some forms of (please excuse my analogy) resistance training at the gym where you slowly increase the reps and weights as your body adapts to the "workout". By masturbating nearing the point of orgasm and then stopping and then continuing, you could theoretically go on for as long as you like (until you get too exhausted!) but you do not have to overdo it. As long as you have reached a point where you and your partner enjoy yourselves, then consider it a job well done!
     
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    It's been my experience that edging will make me have a fast, unfulfilling (as in very little sensation) ejaculation once I do have sex. It's like shaking a pop bottle up and then letting it settle....you get an overflow when you open the bottle rather than an explosion.

    Maybe I'm missing something.
     
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