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Featured Does pubic hair put you off? Poll

Discussion in 'Sex & Sexual Health' started by Medic, Oct 15, 2015.

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  1. hate it, puts me off a lot :(

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  2. puts me off a lil bit :-/

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  3. Neutral

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  4. Like it a bit actually :)

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  1. Medic

    Medic Administrator

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    I hate pubic hair. It does put me off from sex and reduces the attractiveness of the girl by few notches. I like to be with minimal hair down there and encourage my wife to be like that too. My wife says its not exactly normal to feel like that, but thats me.

    What about you? Is it a downer, even by just a lil bit? Please vote and give your opinions.
     
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    Most people hate it because it gets in the way, so to say. Others who like it don't mind it because they get used to it and sometimes you don't have choice because you either take what you get or you just lump it. It is better to accept it as it is, with or without hair.
     
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    It's funny because with men it's either all or nothing. Some guys are freaked out by no hair because they think it reminds them of a child and then there are men that really like a woman with hair. I personally like to feel clean and don't like hair at all. I think it is all a personal preference and to be decided with the couple.
     
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    I don't mind pubic hair on other people, and to me it doesn't detract from how attractive someone is. I'm not a huge fan of manscaping and I've always thought that body hair can be really sexy on certain women, but I don't like it for myself. As good as I think it can look on other girls, it just doesn't feel comfortable to me personally so I keep everything completely shaved and/or waxed. I know that's what my boyfriend prefers as well so it works for us, I'm just glad we're on the same page.

    It seems like minimal pubic hair has kind of become the standard. I don't know if it's porn inspiring real life or vice versa.
     
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    The shaved look makes for a much cleaner appearance on a woman, but I have nothing against a landing strip or a trimmed look. It's not gross by any means, but I think I'd prefer a woman to be completely shaved most of the time. My girlfriend usually shaves it or waxes it all.

    For myself, I'll trim it, but I have also shaved everything off too. It's really up to my girlfriend as to what she wants me to do since she's the one spending most of her time down there. ;)
     
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    I like a man to be neatly trimmed but definitely have pubic hair. I don't care for the clean shave look on men. That bad boy needs to have some earmuffs! :p

    I also don't like the look of clean shaved women. I find it kind of disturbing because the top half looks like a woman and the bottom half looks like a child. GROSS. It kind of creeps me out a little, but that just my opinion. It's a personal decision for each person to make about their own body.

    I like a woman to look like a woman and have some hair. I like and prefer trimmed up pubic hair on women, including myself.
     
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    I find it so strange when people are really grossed out by pubic hair, sorry! I don't get it at all... We all are mammals and naturally grow hair over most parts of our bodies! It's so interesting that besides our head hair, hair that grows in thickly is considered gross! I don't shave anything personally and I like the look of body hair on my partners, but I also don't mind if they prefer to shave or trim. Keeping things tidy can be nice to do but I'm honestly not bothered if they just let it run wild either. It just looks so soft and natural! And shaving or waxing is such a pain to keep up with. :p
     
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    Have to say I agree with you, except that I really don't like it when men shave their pubic hair off. I can't stand the feeling of the stubble when there is a little bit of growth and it takes almost no time for it to be there. There is no way you can keep it smooth enough to feel good without having it permanently removed. I'm not sure what the purpose of shaving the pubic area on a man is.

    I can kind of see it for women, because we wear such tiny bathing suits and undergarments and you don't want unsightly hair sticking out the sides, but it went so much farther than that once the fad got going. I assume that it started so nothing would be covering up the area of interest in photo shoots for men's magazines.

    But there is not area of interest being covered up on men. What you've got protrudes past the hair. And as for oral, unless you've got a mouth the size of a lion, I can't see the hair on a man getting in the way there either. What exactly is the appeal of a shaved man. Ladies, please tell me cause I can't figure it out.
     
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    I too hate it. I don't see any point in having it down there. I shave more often than my girlfriend, lol, since I am very hairy by nature. My girlfriend is aware of this and respects it.
     
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    I don't know but a doctor once told me that it is better to have not shaven it prevent the bacteria to get into your vagina. we'll that's what she said.
     
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    This is something which has never really bothered me that much. It's never really been a problem. I would probably be more put off by a lack of it.
     
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    I'm good with shaven and unshaven hair.. either way my husband still looks sexy ! ^_^
     
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    It's quite unattractive for me. I know especially for those guys who practice oral sex it can be a problem. I do not practice oral sex but I just don't like to see a lot of pubic hair. It feels disgusting as well. At the same time I try to be very understanding because after all, that's she's made.
     
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    Either way is fine. But I understand how it can get in the way. So trimming it is a good idea even if you don't shake. I have shaved, trimmed and epilated. It's just such a chore sometimes. Being single now, I don't really have to worry about it so much.
     
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    I don't care much about my partner having it or not, it doesn't really bother me. I like keeping it clean down there myself, initially due to my husband's insistence but now mostly for the feeling.
     
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    I'm neutral when it comes to pubic hair. It isn't extremely bothersome, but I'm not particularly fond of it. I'm neither here nor there when it comes with people's grooming down there. So long as the person is taking care of their hygiene, they can sport whatever hair style they'd like.
     
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    I am not one for a hairy anything! My husband keeps his groomed. I do not want to have to part the "hair sea" just to find what I am needing to put in my mouth! I am the same way with mine. I like it clean and smooth.
     
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    When it comes to pubic my husband keeps thing groom but I think I would totally put off he shaved everything. I want a man! A man is hairy, so seeing him completely shaven would be weird to me.
     
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    I am not one for having a bush down there at all! I have mine completely shaved smooth. My hubby would have a fit if he couldn't find what he was looking for. He also keeps his groomed because I hate pubic hair. For some reason I associate the hair with stinky, sticky, smelly crotch. I know that sounds silly, but I can recall being younger and with my ex, that didn't believe in grooming his area down below. There were a few times when we were getting ready to the nasty, and he pulls off his boxers, and has lent and fuzz stuck in the hair. It was a total turn off! I shouldn't be running for a lent roller before we have sex.
     
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    I actually hate the two extremes where one is completely hairless down there. It feels strange like I am back in highschool and am having a really young girl.
    I also hate a bushy place. It turns me off instantly more than even the hairless one. It just feels uncomfortable and dirty.

    So I like the moderately trimmed one. It shows they are clean without trying too much. So a little bush works for me.
     
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    I don't like public hair. In my opinion, Clean shaven brings about a pleasant level of attractiveness and feeling which is a real turn-on for me. The hair could get sweaty sometimes which may create a bit of unpleasantness.
     
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    I like it. Mature women have hair. I prefer full or just a little grooming.
     
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