Look, I think that pubic hair is sexy but people you have to maintain it! Trimming it every now and then is necessary. There is no reason why when your pants come down it should look like a whole other person is living there. Personally, I shave one month and design another. Wax, is a whole other story. Tried it once at home and never did it again. God Bless the brave people who can tolerate that pain.